Hey brother, thanks for sharing your perspective and the difficulties when people refer to you as a "coco". As someone who is "racially ambiguous" and has been asked that same question all around the world, I agree with your sentiments about being a POC (especially celebrating our differences).

However it seems that you may be missing a key point, which is what you represent to others (the next generation for example). You show that you have done what is necessary to make a better life for your own daughter, but what have you done to help others from the brown/black community in general?